Thanks for the answer :)
Now the context menu is only on the items (as i want)
but i didn't reach my "command" code in my viewModel.
this is my code after your help:
<usercontrol.Resources>
<telerik:RadContextMenu x:Key="menu">
<telerik:RadMenuItem Header="This menu is only for item" x:Name="radMenuItem"
Command="{Binding c}" CommandParameter="{Binding selectedItem}"/>
</telerik:RadContextMenu>
<Style TargetType="telerik:RadListBoxItem" x:Key="itemStyle">
<Setter Property="telerik:RadContextMenu.ContextMenu" Value="{StaticResource menu}"/>
</Style>
</usercontrol.Resources>
<Grid>
<telerik:RadListBox
ItemSource ="{Binding collection}" , SelectedItem="{Binding SelectedItem2, mode =TwoWay}"
ItemContainerStyle="{StaticResource itemStyle}"
</Grid>